It's been such a complex week, and one I can't really describe adequately. Whenever that happens, I seem to resort to bullets...
- First, there's Henry, who sent me a photo of the two(?) stray dogs his daughters brought home. He wasn't a happy camper, but is putting on a smile because he's very nice and loves animals, even Mari who climbs in his lap(instead of mine) every time he's over! Poor stressed out guy though, since his mom has been in the hospital for heart issues since Saturday; she just got out yesterday. As the only retired or close child of 6, he has been carrying most of the load. I'm happy that he's been texting regularly, and of course I've been understanding that we haven't been able to see each other. (because I know he wants to!) He told me in one text that he doesn't think his mom has long. :( We're supposed to get together tomorrow after I attend a friend birthday party, and I'm excited for both! I can't wait to give him BEAR HUGS!
- My own mother's kidney numbers are definitely worsening after 30+ of diabetes. We have told her about 1 million times to drink more fluids, but she is a stubborn woman. Hmmm, I guess I come by it naturally. I am concerned about her, although not obsessively. My mom will be 85 in May, and is very realistic about her mortality. However, my dad will never survive without her. He won't want to.
- My close friend in Alaska, Becky, emailed me yesterday to discuss her youngest son's troubles: suicidal, depressed, anxious, drinking too much, etc. It was terrifying, but I tried to be there for her. She understands that I have personal experience with suicide, and that dealing with it is particularly painful for me. Here is a photo of us in happier times:
- I love Alaska, and this boat tour out of Seward was incredible! (except for the seasickness) I do look a little gray, don't I?
- This constant rain(and cold!) isn't doing much for my hair; look at that crazy curl! Last night I went searching obsessively for photos of my late brother Don and his natural Afro. I didn't find what I was looking for, but took a trip down memory lane. Without tears, which was a triumph.
- Then there were Senior Boards today, way too early. Surprisingly, the presentations were much better than I expected. My room had 7, while others had 3 or 4 though! While we were taking a bathroom break, many people were leaving because they were FINISHED. I refuse to be grumpy now, although I was at the time! And tomorrow we're also scheduled for 7-WTH? Retirement is coming soon, and I will need to find other things to complain about, right?
